Thursday, February 28, 2013

I Learn Therefore I Am!

What keeps us young and vibrant? Consistently learning new stuff!


One of the things I have noticed is that as people get older they also tend to forget that what makes us vibrant is the "willingness and thirst to learn"!
I think one can be young at any age if one is aware of how learning happens, that it is the most natural thing in the world, and something that we need to keep alive… as what seems to happen is that with age we oftentimes become less open to the very thing that keeps us vibrant- learning!

Learning new things can be overwhelming- here are three tips from the Harvard Business Review online on "self-improvement" that I think are right on the spot:

Self-improvement is necessary to getting ahead.
But whether you want to be better at public speaking, using social media, or analyzing data, how do you start?
Here are three general rules to follow:

  •     Start small.
    Learning new skills can feel overwhelming. Focus on one and break it down into manageable goals. For example, if you're trying to become more assertive, push yourself to talk in the first five minutes of a meeting.
  •     Reflect along the way.
    Think about what you're learning, otherwise the new skill won't stick. Talk about your progress with others to get valuable feedback, keep you accountable, and cement the change.
  •     Teach it to others.
    One of the quickest ways to learn something new, and to practice it, is to show others how to do it. Share what you learn with your team, your manager, or your co-workers.

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

People Grow. Labels Destroy

I think one of our greatest challenges is to go through life learning, growing, interacting without be imprisoned by a "label"- a label is not a person.
People grow, labels destroy.

See this clip:

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10150702315685540&set=vb.182480931778592&type=2&theater

Sunday, February 17, 2013

What Good Does a Little Love Do?

Not very clear- ay? Well, I think this video clip says it great- have a look.
 It is not the mere act that is involved but the message, emotion and action that may be triggered again by another person that sets it all in motion- have a look!

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=120823228090214&set=vb.434846803234846&type=2&theater

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Angry people don't get very far

You know how they always taught us that it often pays to count to 10 before striking back, sleep on it before answering, take a walk and then come back to what you wanted to do….well, to me it is very connected to the idea that when you are angry you really aren't "you" at all, but a temporary burst of anger.
Thus, when you react or provoke or strike back, you can never be sure if it is the anger that is talking from within you or you yourself. There is that step in between that we so often forget.







The thing we call "peace" is not a "head thing" but first and foremost a "heart thing".
You have to begin there and work up- angry people don't get very far with these kinds of things.

Monday, January 28, 2013

Storytelling Tips for Businessmen and Managers

I have not doubts about this: storytelling in the business setting is something that will continue to grow and flourish.
I use it in my own work and lectures, teach it as essential narrative tools for winning presentations and collaborate with Sharon Aviv in our work in a leading global hi-tech company, in the program called, "From Story to Success".
Storytelling is practical, effective and inspirational. Here are 5 tips from Ira Koretsky, worth paying attention to:

1.  People are at the heart of every great story.

2.  Stories are how people remember you.

3.  Use humor if you want to.

4.  Write in your authentic voice.

5.  Write and speak conversationally.

6.  Write emails as if they will be read on a smart phone.

7.  Tell more personal stories with relevant business messages.

Next time you want to say something important to someone, bear in mind what is above. You are likely to find that the story can tell it best.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Want to Win? First know what you want to happen!

There is one quality which one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning desire to possess it.
(Napolean Hill)

In this world of over-information, over-methodology and over criticism, there is one thing that to me is the absolute basis of all success:
knowing what you want! Successful people are those who can focus on their target and then build their plan and passion to get there.
It all starts with the first step and that is…

Knowing what you want to happen!

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Three Elements of Great Communication, According to Aristotle

In our day and age we have an automatic bias to anything that is "new", new is considered better, upgraded, faster, more effective. Personally, I think this is a dangerous stereotype, and as a coach who deals so often in how people communicate I find that history and the past has much more to give us.

Take Aristotle, for example, who lived nearly 2500 years ago. This article points to the three points that Aristotle cited as essential for effective communication:

1.       Ethos- which is essentially your credibility, do people believe what you say?

2.       Pathos- is what you say having an emotional impact on the listener?

3.       Logos- does it makes sense to the listener, is there an analytical and logical connection to what you are saying?

Three points, over two thousand years and nothing has changed. Great communication is not spin but basic fundamentals based on human existence.

Maybe we can stop upgrading and look the other way for strength and improvement?